Love?

瞿老师说：

爱情3阶段，例如：

被吸引－ 光环，长得帅，阳光
爱上了－ 也许因为他浪漫体贴
在一起－ 现实的。


涂磊老师说过：

为什么彼此相爱之前，那么欣赏对方的优点，
相爱之后为什么变成了互相忍受，经常有一方指责另一方说他变了？
其实不是他变了，是因为他不装了。
在一起了吗，不用装了，也不用忍了，
就暴露出本来的面目。



I guess being together, knowing each other deeper,
realizing problems and accepting each other's life style is hard.
Being together will be happy and exciting at first, but after living together for some time,
we'll know everything a lot better, maybe something we cannot accept pops up too.
Nevermind cause we can always solve problems and try to push our limits further.

Right?

But when things are happening over and over again, I think it is really stressing and we might lose faith.

Not to say girls are always being realistic, not enjoying being together,
just that, in some stages, we really need to reconsider our future.
Love ain't easy to leave, ain't easy to get.
If you are a person who can wait for a perfect soulmate, the "right one" for your life time then go ahead and wait,
try , love many people and find you best soulmate.
If you are a person who really want to have a stable life with a stable lover, I don't know,
cause I am this kind of person.
I don't want to try many people, loving so many people, knowing each other starting from 0.

It's really.. tiring.
To be honest, I am also scared of losing and accepting.
Also being hurt.
I really hope I wont get hurt again.
Damn..... I really sound like a coward.

I have doubts, I have my concerns.
Just let time guide us through and enjoy for the moment okay?
No one knows what will happen in future!
Maybe things will change and we both became a better human?
Don't see it as a 100% negative thing okay?
Let time decide  :)